What is sexuality?Why is it so important to us?These are questions that are easy to answer and yet difficult to fully grasp.Sex is a basic function of human life and on this primitive level exists only to propagate the species.As I am sure you know there is a lot more to it than that and I would like to remind you of the true purpose of sexuality.
Sex is a function that brings us together, creates community, and allows us each to be individuals in a group.The drive for sexual satisfaction can be overwhelming at times, but this is only one aspect of sex and we are getting to a point in our evolution as a species that we can move beyond this urge.Not lose it all together but control it by bringing it up at will in the appropriate situation.
Passion is the emotion that fuels our sexual drive which is coupled with hormones and our physical vitality.It can be pure physical pleasure, but if that is all you are experiencing then you are missing out on so much.Physical pleasure can be experienced with the simple use of your hand and that is one way to experience yourself. This is the sort of thing young teenagers do when puberty comes knocking on their door.
As an adult the options are so much greater and I encourage you to explore them all, while remembering to feel the Spiritual connection.The connection is the goal of sex coupled with the sensation of orgasm.When your partner orgasms in unison with you then the connection you share is about as good as it gets here on earth. Two bodies acting as one! To enhance this feeling also keep in mind the connection to Spirit and the oneness you are feeling with your partner.It is not unusual at all to feel a connection to the entire Universe in this moment.
I like to visualize our bodies as bundles of light, our auras intertwining, constantly sharing energies and as we get closer and closer the energies merge – we are becoming ONE, and at the time of unified orgasm there is only one being expressing the Divine!One incredible beacon of Light!
Afterwards you lay there in bliss and slowly your energies separate and differentiate back to your physical form, but not without a memory of what it is to truly be one with Great Spirit!
This union is a gift to be shared, and many feel it should only be shared between those who are married, however I do not share that belief.Remember that all limitations are self imposed. What you give you receive. We are each individuals and who you share your gift(s) with are up to you.
When the conditions are right a new life can be manifested during this union, but only if both parties deeply desire to create life.The conditions would be an egg and sperm combining in a fashion that produces a fertile egg, and a uterine space for the baby to grow.Not getting pregnant is a simple matter of being sure that you do not want a child.No fear can be present or this will attract what is feared. Pills are a vehicle for your belief, so if you need birth control pills then use them. Just be aware that your mind is what is creating your life based on beliefs. Beliefs are thoughts fueled by emotion, so feel your feelings, this is how you communicate with your soul. You control your life unless you have relinquished this power to others. When you are knowledgeable of the way energies work, then you simply choose that which you desire in advance.Perspective is a tool of the mind that can be used to create just about anything.“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change” (Wayne Dyer).
In summary sexuality is a lot more than physical sex and it is a gift for you to share with anyone you choose, in any fashion you choose, although the choosing must be mutual and consenting.The sexual union with Great Spirit can be experienced with a partner (either same or opposite sex), multiple partners (any combination) or without a partner (using tools/toys or none).This union can even be experienced without any help at all, at any time, and in any place. Sexuality = Spirituality; this is the core of our being, we are Spirit!Feel the JOY ;-)